all abt repeated mistakes...!!

I am in search of a scientific explanation for all this….but this life keeps repeating itself over and over….. yet every time a mistake is done people get surprised “ I can't believe this happened to me” they get shocked each time, yet the error is not new, neither is it designed unique to anyone. The aspect of trust and love seem to play a significant role in creating the sense of “inexistence” of sin…if I love that person then they cannot possibly do this and when they do ‘oh my it’s a disaster!’. It is however interesting to note that even when the sinner is made aware that indeed they will sin in this way, they still attempt to do it in secret assuming themselves cleverer than those who tried and failed before. Most researchers are interested in the social political ills mainly because they do not or have not realized the power of the gender war, to them sins against people who are not men are irrelevant. yet it is this people who are solely in charge of life and rearing, there is no winning this!.