I will illustrate, a man is married to a woman for forty years, he looses his job ten years into the marriage with 3 major bank and sacco loans, he panics and goes upcountry leaving the wife with five children one of whom is infant, she burns under the sun literally at a jua kali workshop with the first borns, with the bulk of their money going to clear debt, get socially stigmatized, then when all dust settles , he gets back, and stills requires the title Head of the house, my argument is let him be the head but if the organism functions optimally with the head and reduces efficiency by 90% with the gadget 'head' on, then by all means, disconnect the head, it shall still remain as the head becoz its seems to be all they care abt. What is unknown is that literally the family as an organ is headed by whoever steers it in direction of growth and intergration.! So by critically analyzing the failures of the patriarchal family I will propose the above as the truth and light!
uthamaki wa mutare, remember that song...........even the toes can steer the family,ignore the heads is my advice n lets see how far they can go without bodies to work with,really they are not all they are thought to be...........highly overrated
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